It is only natural that everything needs time. A plant needs to be seeded, nurtured and grown before the fruits can be picked. An egg needs to be hatched. You cannot smash it and get the chick out. Similarly with people, the person has to be ready before he/she can receive a message. He/she has to have the experience or maturity to get it
Like a plant, a person has to be nurtured from a baby to become an adult to become a caring, responsible, peaceful and contented human being. All this requires time, patience and inward reflection.
Impatience is like a turbulent storm in a natural world.
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